Tweetsgiving: Spend Thanksgiving Differently On Social Media
Posted by Ching Ya | Posted in Blogging Attitudes, Events, Personal |
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I Can Still Remember Clearly…
It was a scorching hot afternoon, my husband and I were driving our way home from a nearby town. The approximate road distance was about 200 km. Since we weren’t in a hurry, my husband had been maintaining the speed well around 90km/hour.
The two-way traffic was less busier than usual with occasional palm oil trucks passing by. After the winding roads, we turned into a long straight one. Coming from the opposite direction was a taxi, followed closely by a four wheel drive – both with a considerable speed. As we getting closer, suddenly the four wheel drive sped up and drove in our lane! The guy was crazy enough to try overtake the taxi with just 150m distance away from us! My husband honked hard and repeatedly to alert the car with me gripping the car handle tightly. The taxi quickly slowed down to give way. The big car was still half in our lane when my husband hit the break and steered into the side road immediately with limited space. I could feel my heart racing like mad when the reckless driver drove past us in minor distance! Close call!
This wasn’t the first time we had a near death experience. A land cruiser rammed into us last year and I still freaked out when thought about it. Not a day goes by when we don’t feel grateful about being alive.
Treasure Your Life: Even The Smallest Thing Counts
There are many times in life I grumbled ‘how unfair life has been! Why can’t I have what others are having?’ It took me a long while to appreciate how fortunate I am to live my very own life. You don’t always need a big incident to tell you how blessed to be just YOU. Life is not a bed of roses, but it’s not all thorns either. Comparing ourselves to those unfortunate ones who have no love, no food, no education, no home, no peace… how one has the heart to complaint? Why can’t we see our glasses being half full instead of half empty? Envy, greed, selfishness and other negative thoughts enough to confine us in a grumpy mood, what more an unsatisfactory life?
Recently I had an inspirational read of Regina’s 50 Timeless Life Lessons in which I learned a great deal about contentment. How I should be grateful about being enough, treasure my family more and people I met along the way. Life is too short for grumbles. If we can all learn to be appreciative for the smallest things in life, our perspective about ‘not having enough’ can be changed tremendously.
Ways To Spend Thanksgiving Differently On Social Media
For those who are reading this, you are owning a powerful asset – social media to spread this wonderful spirit among your network. It’s a moment to really think about Giving instead of Receiving all the time:
- Post about Awareness Months & Thanksgiving ideas to create awareness among others.
- Promote meaningful and inspirational posts via social media bookmarking sites.
- Make an effort to comment as a way to support writer’s effort and hard work.
- Promote users on Facebook by sharing selective tweets when necessary. I acknowledge my Facebook fan by Weekly Selected Posts or occasional tweet about their latest posts in my Facebook Page and Twitter.
- Join Tweetsgiving today and share your story within your network. It’s an annual occasion with wonderful events you can take part in.
- Other References: Top 5 To-Do’s for the Gratitude Season.
It’s time to give back. If not financially, a prayer, a post or a shout out in social media can make a huge difference in people’s lives. We spent too much time worrying about personal matters; our eyes are constantly upon ourselves that we forgot the compassion we should have for others in need. Let’s try to be observant and caring, share the message about love and gratitude today. One Small Step for Us, a Big Step in Humanity.
This post was created as part of a global groundswell of gratitude called TweetsGiving. The celebration, created by US nonprofit Epic Change, is an experiment in social innovation that seeks to change the world through the power of gratitude. I hope you’ll visit the TweetsGiving site to learn more, and to bring your grateful heart to the party by sharing your gratitude, and giving in honor of that for which you’re most thankful.
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Nice sharing Ching Ya… checked Tweetsgiving .. nice site.. being non profit .. added more credits to it.. kudos..
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Thanks Pradeep,
I’m just glad my friend Debra pulled me in this special movement. It gives us a chance to learn be appeciative, which I think it’s great for self-development and conscience too. I’m happy that you enjoyed it.
Thanks for the inspiring post to remind us of what Thanksgiving is supposed to be for! I had not heard of TweetsGiving, but it sounds like a wonderful thing. Think of the thousands and thousands of people who will read what TweetsGiving participants write, and will then be influenced to stop and be thankful.
Thanks again Ching Ya, and Happy Thanksgiving!
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Christie,
Thank you for liking it. I enjoyed the process and maybe next year we can all join and support the act as well. Appreciate your support, my friend.
yeah i agree ..social media is the best way to spread sprit among other..
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Neo,
Glad you think so. Whether we’re in US or not, Thanksgiving should be in our hearts at all times. I’m thankful for your visit here on my blog. Do visit often.
This is a post meant for perusal. Now I will have to contemplate about how my life was spent. Thanks Ching, for reminding us all, that life is short and should be spent wisely. All the best.
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Jena,
Thank you for visiting! ^^ Hope you had a good weekend so far and enjoying life well.
Yes, it’s important to treasure every day well and with respect. This morning I woke up, a bad sitting posture hurt my back. I walked down the stairs in pain, feeling tired and unable to move much. It made me realized how ignorant and careless I was; how I wish I can be all jumpy and active like the day before.
It’s the little things that matter most. ^^ I learned it the ‘painful’ way today. hihi..
You’re right, Ching Ya. I’m always so thankful of what I have now because I always remember where I’ve come from. I try to give back as much as possible. Not only this time of year, but on a permanent, regular basis.
Glad that idiot didn’t actually crash into you headlong.
This is an uplifting post. Thanks for being so encouraging.
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Anne,
Very inspiring thought: to give back on a daily basis. That’s so true!
I dare not imagine what will happen after the collision. Hopefully nobody has to experience similar situation with reckless drivers.
Ching Ya, what a wonderful post! We’re all so busy trying to make money and promote ourselves, that we need to sit back and soak up our blessings, then pass it back a little.
Heather,
Well said, my friend. Thanks so much for sharing this post with others and submitting it to blogengage. Your selfless act is well appreciated, the live example who practices the appreciative method on social media. I’m proud to know you and sincerely, I thank you with all my heart.
Take care always!
Ching Ya,
Impressive once again. I appreciate your attitude and perspective. I agree, we need to always remind ourselves to be thankful for the tiny things in life, instead of focusing on what we don’t have. In America, we have so much while studies show people here are the least happy, those individuals seemingly focus on consuming and gaining social status or whatever, and yet, they’re still unhappy and depressed. Why? Because people tend to get caught up in comparing themselves to others while ignoring the treasures they actually obtain but again, they wouldn’t know it because they too busy looking outward.
Thanks for sharing!
-Mig
Miguel,
I nod all the way till the end!
Comparisons, peer pressure, social status.. it’s just too easy to get sucked in it and missed out the fun and goals we suppose to enjoy in the first place. Just like the other day we passed by a new, sporty vehicle and my husband and I wow-ed all the way, admiring its beauty and speed, in our minds ‘isn’t it nice to have a car like that?’. It’s always good to have new toys but if we don’t learn to be grateful of what we owned, no matter how much we gained it will never ever be enough.
Really glad you step in Miguel. Always enjoy your comments.
Great initiative Ching. RTd
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Thanks DiTesco,
Appreciate your support as always. Wish you best as well!
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lol tweetgiving..I hope one day it’ll go to the encyclopedia
And yeah, we don’t normally treasure what we have until we’re starting to lose them
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Michael,
LOL.. oh yes, encyclopedia will have some time needed to pull in all those new nouns/verbs for sure.
Yes, we only notice one’s importance until we’re losing it – I definitely learned the beauty of running and jumping after I pulled a muscle at my back, this very morning. sigh..
when reading your post, I remembered a couple of weeks ago when almost i was hit by a truck when riding my motorbike. I had the same feeling as you have described.
“As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but also to live by them…. ”
Welcome back Ching…!
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Sernan,
So glad you’re safe and sound! Scary just to hear about it. Sigh.. reckless drivers are everywhere.
Actions speak louder than words. It’s true we need to keep our gratitudes in minds at all times. Appreciate you dropping by.
Yup, i am always trying to be safe everytime i ride my bike. So how are you now? Saw some posts on FB that you are having a hard time sitting down… Well, i hope you get well soon..
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That’s what I love about you Ching Ya, you are always thinking about other peoples’ happiness. You are a great inspiration to me!
Happy Tweetsgiving and Thanksgiving to you!
xo
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Jannie,
I learned this from you. ^^ You always bring joy and happiness to your readers. Although I’m not a good writer, hopefully a little simple post like this can help in Tweetsgiving somehow.
Same to you my friend, wish you best and wonderful life! I’m grateful to know you.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Indeed, we all should give thanks in our own simple ways.
Madz,
Thank you for visiting. Indeed, I’m glad you feel the same way. Have a great week ahead.
I truly believe the small things count for more than all the big things put together.
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Ms Freeman,
Well said! I believe if we make a list about the things we’re grateful for daily, we’ll be shocked how many of them actually are. It’s always the little things we took for granted.
late Happy Thanksgiving to you Chingya! Long time no see, still busy with the creation of my social media networl, traffic exchange and membership site that I haven’t visited your blog for long. Sorry about that.
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Benjamin,
Welcome back! Great seeing you here.
No worries, I know you’re working hard to make the membership site happen. Do what you need to do, I’ll still support your effort as much you’ve given your support to my site previously. I wish you best Benjamin. Visit you shortly.
thanks for the suggestions.. but i was late..
Rajesh,
Gratitude needless to be ‘late’. Thanksgiving shouldn’t be a-day’s occasion. As long you have it in your heart, everyday can be a day to be grateful for.
Best wishes !
I agree with you and I planning for some give away wch ll also help me get some traffic.. either ways it ll be beneficial..
Belated Thanksgiving.
I think that we all are blogging to get more socially connected & thats a driving force that let you work more.
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Techprism,
Wish you had a great day on Thanksgiving too. ^^
Absolutely. What drives me more into social media is how people can actually do so much with it. If being used properly can be a great contributor to mankind.
Thanks for visiting.
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It constantly amazes me how some people have completely disregard the safety of others when they are on the road. If they want to kill themselves, that’s one thing, but why they have to endanger others is beyond me.
I’m glad that apart from some grey hairs, you managed to survive that dreadful moment on the road.
BTW, why the handle, were you getting ready for a quick exit?
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Hi Sire,
Thank you for your concern. I tend to remind myself besides driving carefully, also to watch out for ‘unexpected’ behaviors on the road. Can’t be too careful nowadays.
Ha.. maybe I just need to hold on something to prepare for whatever comes, jumping out was not my intention that time. It should be one hand on the handle (as it’s the nearest to my left hand) while another pressing against the glove to be exact. =P
Hi Ching, it feels great to be here. Wonderful post..I must say. Was quite shocked to read your story. But then, thanks God, you were safe finally. very well said and very inspiring thoughts. Yes, we need to live life to the fullest. Everyone has some or the other problem in his life. Let us not waste out time over such matters. Let us enjoy our lives and find happiness in each and everything which has been gifted to us by this almighty. Let us be thankful to the almighty who has showered his blessings on us and gifted us this precious life. Yes, we can surely make use of this social media for this thanksgiving. Excellent post !
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Aswani,
Thank you so much for visiting and share with us those wonderful words. I agree with what you said about not wasting time but to enjoy and treat life with a bit more respect. I’ll say this is an excellent comment from you. I appreciate it.
You are most welcome
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Wonderful post.
You are sending out a very positive message to everyone who visits, and raising the awareness of appreciation in being of experience.
Wonderful to be back! And happy to hear your well.
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Ana,
Great to have you back as well. Let’s just say that we are inspired by one another. I’m just doing a tiny part while others are doing so much greater works. Your site, too, is very inspiring. Truly hope the good spirit continues in blogosphere, hope we can all make a difference.
Love to see you again sometimes. Take care!
I was moved by your posts Ching, I also believe that we are blessed, that we have all the resources we should have and we shouldn’t complain about it.
Thanks for sharing !!
Gautam
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Gautam,
Thank you so much my friend.
Indeed, we have so much to give thanks for. Really hope this spirit lives on for all of us; continue to respect and live life to the fullest when we still have the chance. Appreciate you dropping by. ^^
Hi Ching Ya,
What a wonderful message of joy peace and generosity! I didn’t even know you linked to me. WordPress didn’t notify me. Anyways I came over to read your blog and simply loved what you wrote. Very inspiring!
I’m so glad you and your husband are ok.
Blessings always,
Eren
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Thank you Eren,
Yes, me too, so now I need to be more appreciative with what I owned from now on.
To have you visit here is an honor. I’m sure there will be some nice posts awaiting me to visit at your side. See you soon.
Thank you so much for sharing your Tweetsgiving post with me!
I am totally going to read Regina’s post as well.
We all have so many things to be thankful for and I try to write at least 15 per day in my gratitude journal. On difficult days sometimes they are as simple as “having clean water to drink”.
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